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Now is not the time for division and spite. Only a united Yellow Army will see the Canaries through the play-offs

28th April 2015 By Gary Gowers 13 Comments

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So, now we know. The play-offs it is.

For the Yellow Army, last weekend was rife with disappointment. Further to events at the New York stadium and the sending-off of Lewis Grabban some of our number took to social media to express their displeasure.

While it may have been only a vocal minority, the voice of the dissenters was loud, vociferous and – in some cases – fuelled by venom. It was unpleasant. The unity that has served the club so well since the arrival of Alex Neil took a sizeable hit.

Now the dust has settled some may have mellowed in their view – and I’m positive that no-one wants to re-engage in the ‘civil wars’ of seasons gone by – but for others the damage was done.

Some regular MyFootballWriter commenters have sensibly highlighted the need to unite and the positive effect it can have on the club’s bid for play-off success, but one of our readers – Anita Byrne-Phillips – went one step further and eloquently committed her thoughts to her smart phone.

Read her impassioned plea for unity below…

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Seventeen years ago I was taken to my first professional football match. It was a case of if you can’t beat them join them!

What followed was remarkable. I immediately fell in love with the atmosphere, the humorous, friendly banter and the game itself. It was the day I discovered that my blood runs green and yellow and, in that moment, I had a whole new family.

I eventually joined my new ‘brothers and sisters’ with a season ticket in the Snakepit area (albeit it back then it was known as a home for ‘Barclay rejects’).

Football has changed a lot in the intervening years – new divisional names, new rules and a lot more pressure and money – but the backbone remains the same; the passion for Norwich City, the loyalty, the unconditional support.

I have cried with grown men in the bad times and I have hugged complete strangers in the excitement of the good times – such as the thrill of a last minute winner. I am Norwich City through and through and these people are my family.

But on Saturday night I witnessed a side of football that aggrieved me so much I was compelled to put pen to paper (or, to be more accurate, fingers to an electronic touch screen device): I witnessed verbal attacks on a footballer’s social media accounts from, apparently, my beloved yellow family.

And this is not the first time that Norwich players have been targeted.

I then saw support for this vitriolic abuse with phrases such as, “they are footballers, they are thick skinned” and, “they put themselves in media spotlight so they deserve it”. Moronic, unintelligent comments further added to the abuse that had already been dished out.

But would these same people condone racial or homophobic abuse? Would they support a physical attack in the same way? Therefore, why should abuse be categorised differently?

A verbal attack is just that – an attack. If I, or others, make a mistake at work we expect our manager to pull us up on it, perhaps even issue a warning, but I would not expect an attack of such venom.

Yes footballers get paid large sums of money but it’s a profession they have been chosen for due to their natural gift and ability. Yes they should be accountable for their actions, but that is why we have officials – some of whom are better than others of course – fines and bans.

Freedom of speech thankfully allows us to have opinions and to discuss the rights and wrongs but it does not give us the right to play vigilante, to turn into online bullies, to start hate campaigns on individuals or attack people – either verbally or otherwise.

This is a subject that is close to my heart, having had a child bullied via social media that ultimately led to a physical attack. Thankfully justice prevailed and the person involved was dealt with by the judicial system but as a result I will not tolerate bullying or abuse of any kind. Instead I will stand up against it.

So we have one game left this season – not including the dreaded play-offs – and now, more than ever, we need to support our team. We, as Norwich City fans, need to step up to the mark and unite.

If promotion was based only on passion and a great fan base we would already be flying high.

One shirt, one football team, two colours… yellow and green.

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Thanks to Anita for sending her heartfelt piece to MyFootballWriter. Hopefully her powerful words will strike a chord.

You can follow her on Twitter @anitabyrne



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  1. Rick hulme says

    28th April 2015 at 7:24 am

    Go girl. Right on.

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  2. Gary Field says

    28th April 2015 at 8:05 am

    Excellent words Anita. Just because a footballer has a social media account doesn’t give all and sundry the right to abuse them when they “have a bad day at the office!”

    OTBC

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  3. Stewart Lewis says

    28th April 2015 at 8:09 am

    Brilliant stuff from Anita.

    Too often, the most passionate things we hear are based in anger and division. This is raw, positive passion – and absolutely right.

    The venom aimed in recent days at Grabban (and others) is doubly wrong. It’s cowardly and destructive behaviour at any time – as compellingly explained by Anita – but it couldn’t be more inappropriate now.

    Let’s remind ourselves of what the team has given us since Alex Neil’s arrival: 46 points from 21 games, the best in the league by a mile. They’ve clawed their way into the play-offs – and not just into the play-offs, but into 3rd/4th place for the advantage of playing at home in the second leg.

    But if that’s really to be an advantage, we have to unite. Recrimination and regret from fans has just one effect – it hurts the team. Let’s leave all that to Derby, Ipswich and Boro, who all spent large chunks of the season in the top two. OTBC!

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  4. Colin Mason says

    28th April 2015 at 8:21 am

    Anita, you’re a Star! A real supporter of our wonderful club. Just hate the angry, hateful idiots, so called supporters. We support our team whatever happens. Pleased for Bournemouth fans who have certainly been through the bad times. Enjoy the play offs and whatever happens we will be there come August .

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  5. Cosmo P says

    28th April 2015 at 8:26 am

    ..but having spent 3 seasons in the Premier League previously, surely we are entitled to win every game in the Championship with the likes of Rotherham just rolling over in front of us?
    What fans of former PL ‘stalwarts’ Bolton and Blackburn wouldn’t give to be in our position.

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  6. windsor city says

    28th April 2015 at 9:26 am

    If you are not going to support the team whoever wears the shirt or however they are playing then don’t come. Like 1000s of others couldn’t get tickets for Rotherham (or Fulham). Stay at home and rant at the tv or radio and let those who will back the team whatever provide the vocal support that will be so needed in next 4 games. Disquiet and nervousness spreads to the pitch, lets not be havin’ that !

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  7. Roger Cole says

    28th April 2015 at 10:15 am

    Well said Anita. I just wonder what was said/done at close quarters to Lewis Grabban by his old club captain. It might not have been in the Vinnie Jones/Paul Gascoine league – but who knows?

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  8. BucksCanary says

    28th April 2015 at 1:08 pm

    Yep.

    That’s it.

    Yep.

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  9. Sarah Cousins says

    28th April 2015 at 5:04 pm

    Well said that woman!

    Seriously Anita I couldn’t have put it better myself.

    OTBC

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  10. Joe.k says

    28th April 2015 at 5:12 pm

    Well said Anita, you are a true Norwich City supporter and couldn’t agree more with your comments. We have to get behind our team regardless of what happens.

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  11. Cosmo P(2) says

    28th April 2015 at 5:27 pm

    The calls to unify in one positive voice are of course admirable but sadly futile ultimately. At the first sign of playoff trouble on the pitch, the grumblings will begin as they have since day 1 of this season.
    Over the past 2-3 years, we seem to have become an increasingly fractious lot, quick to pounce on any perceived weakness or dip in form or performance.
    Maybe it was always that way and I just never noticed it before?

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  12. Stewart Lewis says

    28th April 2015 at 10:12 pm

    Cosmo (11): I think it set in during our first two years in the Premier League, i.e. 2011-13. The over-achievement of a low-budget squad in those two years – one under Lambert, one under Hughton – seemed to create a sense that our rightful place was in the top 10 of the Prem. When reality began to set in, the reaction was to lash out. ‘Fractious’ is a perfect word.

    I really thought we’d put that behind us – but apparently not. It gives me serious worry for the prospect of my team being successful and keeping an outstanding young manager.

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  13. Dave H says

    30th April 2015 at 1:17 am

    I actually had no idea of what was said – I find the ignorance of people remarkable. I also thought the days of division were behind us – apparently not. I agree it was an excellent article, sadly the people who need convincing won’t even bother to read it, let alone understand it.

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